You are correct about the stock springs being too weak. Even if you wrench down compression (top nut on triple clamp) all the way down, you're only going to get about 52 mm's of travel. The target, is about 32-34 mm's of travel.
I have a Racetech front fork with springs and there Gold Valves, and like them alot. You will definately need someone in your area that knows how to rebuild a fork (NOT the dealer, look for a shop that handles road racing bikes). When they are done and installed, you want them to then set up the bike to your weight (they'll do this with you there, on the bike).
There are other companies that will re-spring/re-valve your forks, but you'll have to look around, I'm drawing a blank right now.