Also welding up your PAIR valve ports help HP. I have never seen any data on this but its a good sized hole in the top of the exhaust port and will hurt exhaust velocity.
Also look at the way I profiled my valve seats to flow with the port on my first posted pic and this (*the other side)
(Before on left, after profiling on R)
You may be able to use these pics to help grind some excess material off your ports. Just make damn sure they are all the same.
Here is a really nasty transition between the OEM valve seat and the port. Its hard to tell how bad it is from the pic but its almost 2.25mm deep. This can all be blended out.
As far as doing your own port job I still say get a ported head from good head porter and copy the profile on your head.
It really is not hard and takes the worry out of going too far and you KNOW you will be making HP.
I will say that I didnt find anywhere on my example head that wasnt enlarged at least 1mm on all surfaces in the port over OEM. (So mesuring from side to side would be 2mm larger diameter).
~JH