Thanks Cookie.Just so confused on what I was supposed to do. My world started to revolve around her and we did everything together. By no real choice of my own, I pulled back some and she thought I didn't want or need her anymore. Wasn't true. Needed her more than ever. My wife knows all about her and I went as far as to tell her I was in love with Christian. She fought hard for me and in the end was the one that was hurt. Everything including my bike has memories that hurt more than anything I've ever been through including my mom dying. Christian dated bobby blotter( sp? And don't give a shit either. Rock group Ratts drummer for 1.5 yrs. 9 months they have been apart and he wont leave her alone. She hated him in the end. But he asked her to marry him and being so hurt by me told you him she would consider it. She said she may not love him but it didn't matter he at least wants her where she feels me being her first and only person she ever loved Eleanor want her. I can't get a hold of her and I'm scared she'll do something stupid. Im a mess
It is human nature to want what we sometimes cannot have. Once told that you loved Christian
<sorry about earlier sp> wifey drew out her protective claws to regain all that she had,, or thought she could have. And all told of what she would never have again, but all to challenge the woman that was attempting to take what she once had - that being you.
One thing about this life, and I am not talking down to you,, and maybe you DO know,, but Pat, you can and should
never feel responsible for what others will do to themselves. Sure, you can try to help people and the feelings you have for those people in your life runs deep and will hopefully have impact and "keep" them from doing "something stupid". But, you are not responsible for other people actions, and whether she does something stupid or not in not a reflection on you. She, or whomever, makes the choice in their life as to what choices and actions and that falls on them,,, not you.
If she marries someone else, so be it. Pick yourself up, CONCENTRATE ON YOU AND YOUR LIFE,, and move on.