Pat,
Congratulations on what you decided...................you are a young guy (compared to me) and you have most of your life ahead of you. You and your family will work it out. I know it. I have loved 5 women in my life, my mother, Vicki, Katy, Terri, and Lynda. Time passes, and we all change. I miss my mother the most. She was wonderful. And beautiful. She sacrificed everything for me........that is true love.
There is no love stronger than that.
Dave