ok, so checked out the O ring problem....got some new ones on order (still), but in the mean time i happened to find some ones at a local hardware store that did fit. cost was like $2.51 for 8 of them, $5 EACH at the dealership....crap IMHO. but i put one in gas before i put them on to make sure they wouldn't dissolve. and nope, was still there fully intact when i checked on it a while later. THEN, put them on, put everything back together...and it STILL LEAKED!! i was like AAAAAHHHHHH!!! so i had a huntch that it may not have ever have been the O rings, but perhaps the brass bungs. yep, seemed to solve the problem.
and i think the FMU is fine. did several tests (bicycle pump and boost gauge....), and i think it wont have to go in the garbage
so now i am waiting to get a friends wideband, then i can weld a bung on the DP (got two bungs and a plug for $5 from MIDAS! thanks guys, you are allright! i also couldnt find them anywhere else, so thanks for having some IN stock). then i can test ride it a little more.
also got the ghetto 10psi map from PINKY. thanks man! but i must have a different PC or something....i had to manually insert the numbers into a map because it wouldnt upload. some compatibility issues. no biggie. just look at the one and type in the other